esquire's handbook for hosts
esquire's handbook for hosts
esquire's handbook for hosts
esquire's handbook for hosts

Vintage life coach: Esquire’s Handbook For Hosts

We recently came into possession of the 1949 tome Esquire’s Handbook For Hosts and thought we would share some of our newly discovered wisdom. A gem of vintage literature, Esquire’s Handbook For Hosts was first published in the age of ‘Lounge’, gently coaching men in the art of throwing the perfect cocktail party.

Republished in 1999, the book has continued to gift time-honoured advice that has not lost its touch. Chapters focus on food, cocktails, merrymaking and entertaining, including all manner of courses from canapes and picnic suppers to midnight snacks and a prize brunch for stragglers the next day. There are after-dinner activities like continental card games, etiquette refreshers and tests for rating how attractive you are to women. Chuckle-worthy no-nos of interacting with the opposite sex include the likes of “don’t show your real fondness for a girl by highlighting her bad points and advising her how to improve them” and “don’t boast about your conquests with other women in an attempt to arose a lady’s interest” (hint: it won’t work).

On the matter of how to dress for the cocktail party or supperclub you’re set to host, Esquire’s Handbook For Hosts advises that lightweight midnight-blue trousers, a pleated chest dress shirt and velvet jacket are appropriate attire , provided that “you are a bachelor and not a hermit, that you are going to entertain pretty regularly in the apartment and not spend all of your time prowling a pair of nylon legs”. Commenting on hats, pushing in chairs and shaving a minimum of once a day are actions that rate highly on the scale of attractiveness.

Packed with recipes from obscure Peanut Butter Soup to simple Welsh Rarebit and Rum Ice-cream for dessert, this guide delivers a good dose of advice for the modern male host.

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